It has been a while. I hope 2018 is doing us all good though January seems to be dragging lol. Its all good sha.
Yesterday, I overheard two girls having a discussion. Girl A was saying to girl B that she had embarked on a journey of weight loss. She had started going to gym, doing exercises and all. She added that she had started rubbing a cream to take care of her spots and pimples. You know in the spirit of the New Year, the new vibe and all. Making a difference and the sacrifice that comes with it.
But girl B that made me shake my head in disbelief.
‘Which guy are you doing all this to please, I hope its not Kehinde?’
Lol. I am like wow. Why can’t she be doing it for herself, for her personal gain and growth? To be able to stare in the mirror and be happy. To be able to move from one point to the next.
My point is whatever we embark on this month and successive months, anything that is for our growth and benefit, I beg, do it for YOU. Don’t do it for anyone. Do it for you only, to be truly fulfilled because as we know human beings remain insatiable. No amount of development will satisfy them completely.
So as we grow, lets grow to be happy and to be comfortable for our very own health sake.
If your development is to please people or to shut them up, I don’t know for how long it will last.
Be happy. Be strong. Keep pushing.